Right now, the story on Social Media is “Why Did Olayode Juliana, a.k.a. Toyo Baby Lie about Being a Virgin”.. This question was prompted after she revealed in her book that she lost her v*rginity at the age of 17…
Before now, everyone else believed Juliana was a v*rgin as she had said so several times on interviews and shows!
In her 150 pages book (REBIRTH), she explained how she confessed to her foster father Timi Adigun and his wife after they all thought she was a Virgin.
She went further to write about how people assumed she was a v*rgin after her Instagram post and how she had to lie on TV!
However, the fact that I had confessed to TiTiMi Adigun did not mean the world now knew. People had assumed I was a v*rgin. I had never said I was but I had never corrected their assumptions either. So, I was still in that fix.
Shortly after my confession, Ebony Life TV called me for an interview. I went and for the first time in my several interviews, I was asked point blank if I was a v*rgin. I tried to evade the question, but my interviewer was not having it.
She demanded for a yes or no. I did not see the question coming and I lied. I said, “Yes, I am a v*rgin”.
Immediately the interview was over, I hurried to the bathroom in the studio and cried. I felt terrible for lying and told God I was sorry. I called Dee on my way home and confessed my wrong. I explained further when I got home.
The next thing he said shocked me. He said, “Call her and confess the truth. Ask for a rescheduling of the interview; do it again and undo your mistake.”
I was not going to do that. I felt it was my secret and the whole world need not know about it. I was upset with myself, however, for answering her. I could have insisted I could not tell. So, I proposed never to answer such again. Easier said than done, right?
Shortly after, I was on another TV interview, Crux Of The Matter, with Elsie. I was invited to talk for s*xual purity while the other guest spoke against. In the process of the discussion, around the time when it was heated, I was asked out of the blues again if I was a v*rgin. And before I knew it, I heard myself lying again. I was mad at myself.
I was on another TV interview that trended for a while. It was On The Couch, with Lady Ariyike. I talked about s*xual purity, but thankfully I was not asked if I was v*rgin.
After that one, I decided to stop interviews altogether. I was tired of lying or having to dread lying if I was asked straight up.