Guys, Get In! These Are 4 New Reasons Why Your Woman Cheats On You (No. 1 Is The Worst Of All)

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Sometimes a relationship can go awry and hit the rocks especially if one partner cheats on the other. For the guys, these are certain reasons why women cheat on their partners.

You have a hot girlfriend, a solid relationship and she would never cheat on you… right? Wrong. You should never underestimate a woman’s willingness to stray because women can be just as unfaithful as men in relationships–especially if you’re not taking care of your business at home. Here are some reasons why women cheat.

1. Lack of intimacy

The one thing women want most in a relationship is intimacy. It’s not just s*x that makes women feel connected in a relationship–it’s things like touching, kissing and communicating. Women crave intimacy it, and they could seek it elsewhere if they’re not getting it at home.

To achieve better intimacy and give your woman a sense of closeness, spend quality time with her and do special things like mass*ging her feet, preparing a romantic dinner for two, etc… Routine s*x in the same position and the same setting can become very boring, but an affair could add adventure and get her adrenalin flowing. Doing unexpected things like surprising her with a weekend getaway and having date nights can add that same kind of excitement to your relationship.

2. She feels neglected and ignored

Women want to feel wanted; however, if they feel more like servants instead of your girlfriend, they could stray. Also, spending all your time at work or out with the fellas when you are off gives her even more reason to seek attention elsewhere. Women are emotional beings and they need their men to be present in the relationship and provide emotional support to them. Once you start neglecting and ignoring your relationship– cheating is inevitable.

3. Revenge for your cheating

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Because you cheated, you broke her trust (and, possibly her heart) and she wants to hurt you the same way you hurt her. You can’t undo your indiscretions, but you can ask for her forgiveness, assure her it will never happen again and suggest relationship counseling to help the two of you. To regain her trust, it’s not enough just to tell her you’re sorry–you’ll have to show her with your actions.

4. She senses the relationship ending

Women are emotional beings. Not only do they need physical support, but they also need emotional support. When a woman feels that uneasy sense that the relationship is ending, by either her doing or his, she will often look to fill the void externally to soften the blow.

So, in her mind, she’s not really cheating–she’s moving on. To avoid this, be present in the relations

Bewarned! People Who Work These Jobs Are Most Likely To Cheat On Their Partner (See Job)

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A new survey has made a shocking discovery that people from some professions are more likely to cheat on their partners.

A close second were aviation professionals at 19 per cent, with doctors and nurses just behind them at 15 per cent.

The top ten cheating professions are:

1. Financial (Brokers, bankers, analysts, etc.) 21%
2. Aviation (Pilots, flight attendants, flight pursers) 19%
3. Healthcare (Doctors, nurses, nursing assistants) 15%
4. Business (CEOs, managers, secretaries) 12%
5. Sports (Athletes, instructors, representatives,) 11%
6. Arts (Musicians, models, actors, photographers) 7%
7. Nightlife Industry (DJ, dancers, waiters) 6%
8. Legal (Lawyer, secretaries, prosecutors, judges) 5%
9. Communications (Journalists, public relations, communicators,) 4%
Other sectors 2%

Speaking to the Mirror, Sigurd Vedal, founder and chief executive of Victoria Milan, said the survey proved his members are more focused on enjoying life than advancing their careers.

He said: “The survey clearly shows that even though there’s a risk to your career, having an affair at work makes life a lot more pleasant.

“At the same time, the majority of cheaters would steer clear of mixing work with pleasure – not because it damages their career, but because they are at risk of being found out, or will feel uncomfortable.”

“My Wife Would Divorce Me If I Ran For President Again”- President Obama Reveals

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President Obama has revealed the First Lady is more than ready to move on.

In an interview on “Jimmy Kimmel Live!” Monday, President Barack Obama spoke candidly about his time in office and jokingly revealed that his wife Michelle once gave him a stern warning against him seeking a third term.He said

“Personally, for me, if I were able to run for a third time, Michelle would divorce me,” Obama joked as the crowd burst into laughter. “So it’s useful that I don’t have that choice to make.”

“[Michelle] is spectacular but [she] was never wild about politics,” Obama said.

“Michelle once explained to me: ‘I try to organize my life not to have a lot of mess around and politics is just a big mess.’”
Their daughters Sasha and Malia are also on board with mom.

“All the women in my life are looking forward to being able to live a more normal life,” Obama admitted.

If You Do Not Want Your Marriage To Break, These Are The Things You Must Never Do On Facebook

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There have been series of arguments on whether married people are supposed to be active on social media. In order not to generate controversies, their presence there is not the problem. Instead, it is what they do there that we should focus on.

A a matter of fact, one’s life should not come to an end simply because one got married. You should never allow marriage to make you lose out on your youthful years. Do everything possible but then do it with caution and be responsible while at it.

Many homes have been broken due to the roles the parties involved played on social media. Almost everyone is on Facebook and it will be unfair to blame the things happening on the social site on the site itself since there are adults posting stuffs on it.

One thing you have to know about social media and being online is the fact that you have to conscious of what you post. Once you hit the post button, millions of people are reading your thoughts the next second. That is what the word viral is all about as it articles and pictures have the ability to travel far.

Marriage being a sacred institution has to be treated sanctimoniously. Couples should avoid doing things that will strain their relationships with their partners. If you do not want your marriage to crash, here are things you should never dare to do on Facebook:

1. Never make rude posts

It is important for you to learn to vent in a different way. We all have moments when we feel like breathing and airing out our hearts.

If you are married, you need to consider how your partner will feel about it especially if you are not talking to him or her about it. You do not want to give people the impression that your partner is incapable of making you happy or that you have problems in your home.

2. Never find your exes

Breaking up might have been a bad experience for you. You are expected to have made up your mind about them before getting married.

Do not become a stalker who keeps checking out what they are up to. Let it go. Let them go. You are supposed to focus on your partner and friends that will bring you so much delight.

Finding exes may make the old flames burn. You will only have yourself to blame if you keep taking that path.

3. Never post n*de pictures

In this part of the world where married people are supposed to be role models to the youths when it comes to being responsible, you should never be found wanting.

It will be a belittling for your spouse to find out that you have shown the world everything he should be seeing. By doing so, what exactly do you want to achieve? It is not a memorable thing to be left for your unborn children.

4. Do not become addicted

In truth, there is so much fun being on social sites. You can get carried away connecting with other people while your marriage suffers the blow. You have to learn to sign out when you ought to.

Your partner may feel bad over having to fight for your attention when you are glued to your phones chatting. If you do not quit when you ought to, you may be indirectly pushing them out into the arms of other people.

5. Stay away from pages that will affect you negatively

There are so many pages and groups on social sites. Find the healthy ones and follow only those. Going for the pages that have little or nothing to offer may help you cultivate bad habits that will make your partner worry over you.

If your marriage is important to you, you will have your partner’s best interest at heart while doing things on Facebook and other social sites.

6. Never become violent

It is quite painful for you to discover your partner has a side chic or an obsessed crush on Facebook. For you to be on that kind of platform, it is expected that you have gone through school.

Do not start to bash the lady or man with words. Take your problems outside the forum and find a permanent solution to them.

Not doing that will make people know what i happening in your home. Remember those sympathizing with you will mock you later on. Let your maturity and education show in everything you do.

[Must See] The Top 10 Most Divorced Nations In The World

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This came as a surprise and I know it would definitely amaze you also,  I once thought USA is the country with the highest divorced rate until I was surprised with this list

This list makes me think what the fate of the coming generation would be in their marital lives.

So, here is it:

10. USA: 53%

9. France: 55%

8. Cuba: 56%

7. Estonia: 58%

6. Luxembourg: 60%

5. Spain: 61%

4. Czech Republic: 66%

3. Hungary: 67%

2. Portugal: 68%

1. Belgium: 71%

All these figures are so discouraging and it’s time we all found a way out, if the coming generation would have a taste of anything called marital bliss. It is time we woke up from our dreams ! It is time we gave love the chance to grow in our hearts again. And the very time we give up selfishness.

What do you think about this list?

“My Husband Does Not Want To Have S*X Because My Pr*vate Part Smells Bad, What Should I Do?” – Lady Seek Advice

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This lady was forced to seek advice from people through a publication, because she dreads the intimate part of her marriage may come to an end. This reader’s letter is a special one. Please, read it carefully and share your insights with the woman. She is eager to receive help!

“My husband and I have been together for four years and our marriage has been good to say the least apart from one disturbing thing.

For about a year now, he keeps telling me that I always have a funny smell. Sometimes I can detect a distant smell but he makes it sound really bad to the extent that we no longer have foreplay during s*x.

I have tried everything including using roll on and I shower every day, but he says the smell is still there. I am very embarrassed by this and have even lost self-confidence since I cannot help but wonder how many other people actually pick up the smell.

I don’t know what to do about this but I’m worried our intimacy is headed south, please help me.”

Dear readers, send us your stories to Barlohgun@gmail.com (with “My story” in the subject line).

Ladies, Be Careful O! These Are 10 Things Guys Notice About You And You Never Knew They Do (No. 7 Is New)

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Men are masters at noticing the ladies. These are certain things they may have noticed about you that you didn’t even know about.

It’s a common belief that guys are not observant and are not tuned in to women, but they notice a lot more than you might realise. You think that some of these things that you do are your little secret, but, they do know about them really. They just don’t let on that they do. Here are ten of those things that you think guys don’t notice:

1. When you are upset

You think that they are being insensitive, when it seems that they don’t even notice you are upset. They probably have noticed either, but they don’t know how to handle it, or they know it’s their fault!

2. When you check your hair

When you see a guy you like and you unconsciously check your hair in a nearby window, not only do the guys notice, but they also get the message!

3. When you adjust your br.a

Those times when you try and make it look like you are rubbing your shoulder, but you are actually putting your bra strap back into place; guys know exactly what you are really doing.

4. When you really dislike another girl

It’s those little scowls and deep sighs that give this one away. If you don’t like another girl, then your man will notice. You simply can’t hide the body language.

5. When you wear your hair differently

Another thing that guys are often accused of, is not noticing it when you change something about your appearance. More than likely they have noticed that something’s different about you, they’re just not sure exactly what, so they won’t risk a comment in case they get it wrong!

6. How you behave around your friends

Most girls get a bit more girly and excitable when their friends are around. When this happens, the guys do notice and they will probably beat a hasty retreat from the scene, if they possibly can.

7. When you go to the bathroom with your friends

When you are out with a group of friends and you all mysteriously need the bathroom at the same time, guys know exactly what’s going on. They know you are going to compare notes and discuss them. No one’s bodies are that finely in tune with one another!

8. When you have a crush on a guy

Don’t think that you can hide it, when you really like a guy, because you can’t. The touches to the hair, the furtive glances, and how your body shifts to face him, will always give the game away here.

9. When you give another girl the evil eye

When another girl shows an interest in your man and you warn her off with a withering, icy look that could kill, men will notice that too. It strokes their ego, but it also scares them, so they will probably step in to lighten the mood.

10. When you make a suggestion that is really a command

Any man with a brain knows that when a girl makes a suggestion, she is really saying do it! The thinly veiled instruction behind a phrase like: ‘Don’t you think that music is a bit loud?’ or ‘This new restaurant in town looks nice’, holds no mystery at all to a man.

Guys, Take Note! 10 Things That Make a Man Attractive to a Woman…Don’t Joke With No. 3

There are certain things that can attract a man to a woman and keep her with him. These are some of those things.
It’s a common gripe amongst men that it’s always the same type of guys that get the girl: rich, tall, dark and handsome. Talk to women though, and they will nearly always disagree.
Looks are on many women’s lists of attractive qualities, but what constitutes good looks varies considerably from girl to girl. Money too, does not appear as high as you might think, if at all, on most girls list, so let’s take a look at ten of the things that girls say really attract them to a man:
1. Romance is not a thing of the past 
A sense of romance is a big thing for most women. They want to be swept off their feet by a prince charming and they want to be treated like a lady. So guys don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, flowers, chocolates and love poems are not a thing of the past!
2. Being generous with what you have is attractive
While money may not be a big thing, being generous with what you have is. It’s not just about buying gifts for the girl though, being kind and generous to others is also an important trait that women like to see in a man.
3. A great sense of humour
What makes a man attractive to a woman? Humour. If a guy can make a girl laugh, then he’s halfway there! A sense of humour appears on nearly every girls list. It makes everything else seem to go away and, even if the guy screws up, laughter will make it seem less important.
4. A touch of class and a drop of sophistication
Most girls don’t want a snob, but they do appreciate a little sophistication sometimes. A guy doesn’t need to be a wine connoisseur, for example, but he should at least know that downing a bottle of beer and then belching, in a swanky restaurant, isn’t the right thing to do.
5. Self confidence and some decision making
A man with self-confidence will help put a woman at her ease. What girls certainly don’t want is a guy who is so nervous, that he wouldn’t even say boo to a goose, and who is going to leave all the decision making up to somebody else.
6. A well groomed man (Forget worn-out jeans, old sneakers and a three day growth of stubble…)
A girl wants to be proud to be out with her man, so simple grooming is important too. Worn-out jeans, old sneakers and a three day growth of stubble might be comfortable, but they won’t help a guy attract a girl.
7. Passion is hot! Aimless meandering through life is not!
Girls are not attracted to guys who meander through life aimlessly they want some passion and some conviction. That could be a passion for work, for a hobby or for a sports team but, come on! They have to care about something.
8. Willingness to learn and the drive to improve
Another one of important points on what makes a man attractive to a woman is his willingness to learn. We could have headed this point, intelligence, but then that would have been misleading, because it’s not having the B.rain of an astrophysicist that matters, it’s the willingness to learn. Having the drive to improve and to learn new things, is a very attractive trait in a man.
9. Men who like children
It’s a scientific fact that women are drawn to men who have an affinity with children. This doesn’t necessarily have to mean a man who wants to have his own family tomorrow, but a man who can relate to children does seem to appeal to the nurturing side of a woman.
10. Looks (but they are in the eye of the beholder)
Looks do matter, but not the tall, dark handsome type. The looks that women find attractive can vary incredibly. Some girls love a bald man, while others like thick, flowing hair. Some girls have an absolute aversion to facial hair, while others love beards. Looks is here in our list, but what girls find attractive, really, is in the eye of the beholder.
What makes a man attractive to a woman? Feel free to share your opinion.

Men, Here Are Tips To Make You Change From A Boring Nice Guy To A Real Man (Photos)

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Despite how much purists love to hide this fact, nice guys lose all the time. This is not to say that you should become a wicked, heartless modern day Hitler. There is a certain aura of manliness you need to have in order to be respected and adored by the opposite S3@.x:’ and everyone else.

 

Much of the difference between a nice guy and a real man comes down to confidence and how that confidence expresses itself in both physical and psychological terms. There is something very attractive about someone who is self-assured enough to be unconcerned with trivialities and has that air of indifferent positivity about them.

Nice guys often internalize emotions and feelings, so that others don’t have to suffer them, but these feelings often find other ways of revealing themselves unattractively. Often, they will occur as slightly feminine traits or even in a manner that is damaging to themselves and the perception that others have of them.

Real men, on the other hand, are in control of their feelings and allow them to be externalized in a healthy and measured way. Working on this balance between confidence and externalization is the key to becoming the real man of every woman’s dreams.

 

 

So how can you transform from nice to real?

1.  Always take charge.

One of the biggest things that nice guys get wrong is in choosing to let the lady make all the decisions. He believes that he’s being gentlemanly and courteous by letting her take the lead, but in actual fact, it just looks weak and indecisive. So, take charge chaps! Unless she really wants to.

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2.  Be a great listener and problem solver.

 Taking a genuine interest in what the lady is saying is so important. It lets her feel important, and it gives you time to think about what you’re going to say or do next. Most importantly, it shows that you’re confident enough to take on board what others have to say. Of course, don’t be afraid to speak your mind either, which is another sign that you are confident and manly.

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3. Know when to say sorry and when not to.

 Nice guys say sorry all the time. They say sorry for sitting too close or too far away. They say sorry when they go to the rest-room. They say sorry when they sit down again. They seem to say sorry for the inconvenience of blighting the universe with their existence which, needless to say, doesn’t look very manly or confident. However, the one thing he doesn’t do is say sorry when it matters, preferring instead to sulk or moan about the situation. A real man knows and admits when he is wrong or has made a mistake, and will openly and unreservedly apologize for it. But that is the only time you will hear the word pass his lips.

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4.  Speak out when you don’t agree with what is on the table.

 A real man doesn’t feel the need to agree with everyone to keep them sweet. The nice guy wants everything to passively swim along, but by bottling up his opinions, he is in danger of letting them loose in a tirade somewhere down the line. A real man doesn’t worry about disagreeing with others. But when he does, he forms an argument in a measured and constructive way, never making a fuss or losing his temper.

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5. Be a rock.

 A real man is emotionally stable at all times, quite a different thing from being emotional, which is the hallmark of a nice guy. Nice guys gush and cry and sulk and seek approval. Real men do not. They don’t let the behavior or attitude of other people rattle them in the slightest, and they take it all on the chin.

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6.  Sit/stand-up straight or in a confident position and keep strong eye contact.

Constantly averting your gaze and turning your body to the side so that you aren’t properly facing the object of your desires stinks of a lack of confidence, and is a real turn off.

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7.  Be confident about which greeting you choose to adopt, whether kiss on the cheek, handshake or whatever else.

Decide what you’re going to do and execute it with aplomb. There’s nothing worse that someone who changes their mind halfway through a course of action, and it could lead to dangerously crossed wires!

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8. Be aware of the way you deliver when talking.

Similar to the previous point, take your time, think about your response first, then speak in a clear, loud and measured fashion. Squeaking, whispering, mumbling and hurried speech are perceived as very unmanly.

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9. Don’t appear afraid when danger arises, even if you are.

A real man is B.rave. He doesn’t show any acts of cowardice. Being afraid makes you look weak. If there is danger somewhere, always be ready to jump in and neutralize the situation. Don’t hide behind your woman.

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Feeling bold now?

11 Tips To Finally Get Over Your Ex (Must Read)

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Having a hard time getting over that ex that you had so many good memories with? No need to worry. Dr. Etemesi is here to help. Umm…I am not really a doctor but you get the drill.

 

Getting over an ex can either be easy or hard, depending on how you felt about them. If we’re going to be honest, a person never truly knows how hard it will be to get over their ex, until a few days after the break-up. Come to think of it, it’s surprising how the relationships you thought wouldn’t hurt as bad if they ended, wind up hurting the most, isn’t it? But moving on doesn’t have to be hard. Simply follow these tips:

1. Hook up with someone else.

Give a chance to that person that has always wanted you and done everything to win you over. It’s as real as it gets. There’s no better way to forget an ex than to hang out with other people of the opposite S3@.x:’ and have fun with  them, even if it’s for a short time. Who knows, maybe that random person will truly be the one.

 

2. Remind yourself of all the terrible things your ex did to you.

You might miss that person but you should also understand that you didn’t break up for no reason. Things were not cheerful day after day otherwise, the two of you would probably still be together like President Uhuru and Margaret…Remember how your ex showed you so much disrespect or hurt your feelings and you won’t feel so attached anymore.

 

3. Surround yourself with good friends.

Grab a few drinks, go on road trips, watch football games together etc. Just focus on forming a greater bond with your friends than ever before. You might realize that they are the ones who love you the most. There is nothing that helps more in taking your mind off an ex, than having a good time with your friends.

 

4. Follow the ‘no contact’ rule.

 Delete the number. Do it right now. Do it fast. Have you deleted it? Okay. Let’s proceed. But wait. You still remember the number right? Now block it. Block it right now. Block that ex. Okay. You are good now. Haha. The worst thing you could possibly do to hinder the moving on process is to call up your ex, reminisce on the good times, and be sucked right into a bad yo-yo relationship that was not working for either of you to begin with.

 

5. Understand that this is real.

 Get closure and let your ex know that this is a real break up, not just a “break”. Do not leave the door open to getting back together. If things got bad enough to break up in the first place, it is hard to imagine a scenario where things can get better instead of worse.

 

6. Do not leave your stuff with them for a long time then try and get it back.

Either pick your stuff immediately after the break-up or just leave it. If you have left your stuff there for longer than two weeks, either leave it for good, or ask you ex to send someone to bring it to you. Don’t invite them to deliver it themselves.

 

7. Get rid of everything that is a reminder.

Pictures from your vacation in Diani beach? Burn them. The sweater she got you? Give it away. Do away with anything that brings back strong memories of your ex. 

 

8. Get busy with your life.

Try and keep yourself busy and do something for yourself. Ask your boss if you can work overtime and throw yourself into your work. Find a new hobby. There are a million different things you could do to stay busy, and as the days turn into weeks and the weeks turn into months, before you know it, you will be ready to try out the dating scene again.

 

9.  Avoid drinking too much.

 If you want to go out one night and just drink until you can’t take anymore, I’m not stopping you. That is a lot of people’s first choice after a breakup. But when that supposedly one-time thing turns into a weekly, or worse, a nightly event, you have a whole new set of problems on your hands.

 

10.  Reward yourself.

Take that trip you always wanted to take. Experience something exhilarating that you never would’ve done while in a relationship like bungee jumping or bike riding. After being with someone for a long time, you begin to take on their characteristics. Take a few risks, try new things, and find out who you truly are again.

 

11. Do not entertain your ex.

If you really want things to be over, you should give your ex a cold shoulder when they try to reach out. Don’t accept their invitation to meet or respond to their texts. They will get the message.

 

Feeling empowered to get over your ex?