Warning To Ladies! 5 Major Things You Should Never Do To Please A Man…You Can’t Miss No. 1

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There are certain things you should never do for a man in order to make him happy, these are some of them.

Many ladies in the society have been brainwashed into believing it is entirely up to them to keep a man at home and make a relationship work. This is the mentality that is being passed on to the young ladies who have attained the age of marriage.

Words like love, faith, patience, resilience, commitment, dedication and prayer are terms you have to deal with as couples. Women are not born with these qualities or virtues; the strong and reputable women you see in the environment had to work on themselves. A woman who has all these qualities is considered to be refined.

For a woman to be able to possess these qualities, that means it is possible to find men with outstanding qualities too. So why do women weigh themselves down with the burden of making relationships and marriages work if the holy matrimony is perceived to be a hypocritical religious devotion by the men?

This primitive school of thought has subjected lots of women to slavery in their relationships; they have forced themselves to endure scorn and hardships while some put up with cheating men who cannot pay their own bills.

Find below some of the things you should never do to please a man:

1. Never agree to sleep with another man to get him a job or contract

Some women claim to be so much in love with their men to the point that they would do anything for them. You should never allow a man to coerce you into doing things that are beneath your standard.

If you are willing to sleep with your boss to get him a job or a contract, then you are putting yourself on the spot as you have given him a reason big enough for you to break up.

Apart from him not trusting you, you could suffer a big depression as you have compromised your standard and this may dwindle your self-esteem.

2. Do not agree to threesome even if he suggests it

Men have crazy s*xual fantasies; you should never give in to anything that would make you get ridiculed at the long run. the only reason why this may not matter to you is if you are in for the fun of it.

But even at that, your integrity is at stake. Do not agree to let him sleep with your friend while you are there and do not succumb to sleeping with him and his friend too.

Your emotion would be on the line and things would get messy at the long run. Think about this; will a man who wants to marry you be willing to share you with his friend?

3. Do not give him the history of your life

Now, no one is asking you to be secretive in your relationship. It is important for you to open up to your partner and discuss issues that would push your relationship ahead.

While doing this, you should know that your partner doles not need every detail of your life. Some ladies make this silly mistake of baring everything as soon as they fall in love. Not every man deserves to know your history as those things could be used against you.

4. Avoid sending n**e pictures of yourself

Ladies in Nigeria please wake up. It is not okay for you to send nak*d pictures of yourself to any man simply because you are trying to bridge the gap between you both. A man that would cheat would always cheat no matter what.

Even when you trust your partner and know that your nud3 pictures are safe with him, have you thought about what could happen if his phone got stolen?

The pictures could get into the wrong hands and you could become one of those girls whose nud3 pictures are displayed in social media.

5. Never give up on your dreams

There are so many talented and intelligent women in the society; these women have loads of potentials stored in them. However, they have recoiled into their shells because they want to please their partners.

They would give up on their dreams and embrace that of their partners. It would be difficult living a fulfilled life if you always subject yourself to the opinions of others.

7 Basic Reasons Why Most Marriages In The Society Fail

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There is the need to critically review the basic reasons why most relationships in the society fail; marriages are being broken day by day with people moving on with their lives and not being bothered.

The first thing to note here is the mindset and calibre of the people who get into this holy matrimony. Most of them are always in a hurry to say the vows and move to the matrimonial bed.

There is more to marriage than the sharing of bed and material things. Matters that would test the faith and love of couples would always arise with only the brave surviving the storm.

This would then lead us to the point where we get to ask why people go into marriages in the first place. Some people venture into marriage because they base their think it is the right to do since the people around think so. Who are they to help you make such an important decision when they would not live in that union with you?

Then what kind of attitude do you have? This is a very important thing to note as you would be cohabiting with someone who has a different background. This means that you are bound to see things you do not like and you have to learn to handle these things with maturity.

All these form a minute part of the reasons we would be discussing here as we are tired of seeing broken homes and traumatised children. Find below the core reasons why many marriages in the society fail:

1. No set boundaries

Couples do not know how to manage their emotions and have healthy relationships with people outside their homes. There are many people in the society who make friends easily without knowing how to place these new friends.

They make them feel so important that their partners start to wonder the kind of relationship that exist between them.

As soon as you are married, there should be a limit to the things you do with your friends or the kind of conversation you have with them. They create a feeling of insecurity in their partners as a result of their closeness with those people.

2. Selfishness

Many people do not see this as a serious issue as they think selfishness is a problem that could be worked on. There is the need to be considerate when sharing duties and responsibilities; people who place their desires over that of their partners have issues at the long run.

The neglected partners could feel used or taken advantage of. This act often degenerates to serious issues like manipulation, jealousy, obsession and a zeal for control. Selfishness could also transcend to disrespect.

3. Harsh words

It is normal for couples to have fights and arguments but it is not alright for couples to use harsh words on each other no matter how provoked they are.

Lots of marriages have failed because many people could not get over the hurtful things their partners said to them while they had issues.

These words can never be taken back and it would be difficult to pretend as if those things did not happen. Explosive outbursts would break your relationships as unbridled and unchecked temper could turn you to enemies even after the separation.

4. Lack of intimacy

Many marriages have failed and broken as a result of lack of emotional intimacy. Most people lose touch with their partners as soon as they start having kids.

Women become old all of a sudden and are unwilling to try out new methods of lovemaking. Men get tired of the incessant complaints they give when it is time to have a good time with them. Emotional intimacy goes beyond lovemaking as many couples have lots of expectations when it comes to marriage.

People want comfort and support in a union like that and when they do not get it, they do not feel the need to stay in such relationships again.

5. Living separate lives

Many couples drift apart because they live separate lives. It is impertinent for a relationship like that to fail because couples do not make out time for each other. Couples should share activities that would bring them together always.

Couples who live separately and do things independently tend to lose the spark over time. They stop connecting with their partners and find solace in other people. Marriages fail because couples do not share happy moments that involve their children.

There is the need to consult with each other about children’s growth, welfare, and family vacations. As busy as people tend to get with kids, these activities would keep them together.

6. Lack of communication

Another major reason why marriages fail is a lack of communication. Individuals who are uptight, rigid, judgmental and easily swayed by anger could shut down on their partners when they have issues.

This is their supposed way of preventing harsh words. A successful relationship needs constant ironing and mending; no one is perfect.

Not talking about the problems would cause bigger issues as couples would become estranged over time. At the long run, the concerned partner may recoil into a shell and give up on the relationship.

7. Bad habits

There are certain habits and addictions that could ruin your marriage and change your lives forever. Disloyalty, lies, covetousness, dishonesty and emotional imbalance are things that would mess up a healthy relationship as it would bring up issues that would degenerate to trust issues.

It is exhilarating for an individual to complain about issues like these with the other person not changing or bothered. Sooner or later, they would break up and go their separate ways.

Ladies, Take Note! These are 5 Gestures of a Husband Who Will Love You Forever

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Marriage is an amazing thing if the partners are right for each other. These are signs that your man is good and will love you always.

A man’s behavior shifts with his feelings (yes, we have feelings). If he’s mildly interested in you, he acts a certain way. If he hates you, he does certain things. If he really doesn’t care, it shows. Well, here’s what your husband will do if he’s in love with you (and will be forever):

1. He sacrifices for your smile

You’re the light of his life, his better half, the spring in his step. He’s happy when you’re happy, so he goes as far out of his way as he needs to to make sure you’re smiling. He sacrifices his time, resources and abilities to make your day.

You know he’s a keeper when he puts your happiness before his own. In the ideal situation you feel the same and do the same for him. That being said, married life isn’t always going to be full of butterflies and rainbows (as you well know).

2. He tells you the ugly truth to help you grow

When hard times roll around he works through them with you. If there’s a problem in your relationship, he brings it up early on and tries to fix it with you, without holding it against you. He understands that he’s far from perfect, so he goes about conflict resolution humbly yet directly.
He tells you what needs to be improved without making you feel bad about yourself. You know he does it out of love, not malice.

3. He appreciates a burnt meal

He recognizes your efforts and is sincerely grateful for them. He doesn’t take you for granted. He knows full well how much of a catch you are (and you know he knows). When you literally burn a meal, he doesn’t mind. He smiles, chuckles, says “thank you” and eats it anyways. You know it turned out terribly, but he says it’s really not that bad.

4. He’s still dating you

He never really stopped. He’s still trying to learn about you, and he makes a sincere and intentional effort to keep the spark in your relationship alive. He’s still asking you questions. He’s still trying to put his best foot forward for you. You still go out on dates. He takes you to dinner, out to ice cream or to the movies. He holds your hand. He kisses you on the cheek. You cuddle on the couch. He listens to you, learns and remembers even the quirkiest things about you.

5. He calls you out of the blue

Maybe he has a five minute break at work – he calls you just to see how you’re doing. He likes the sound of your voice and wants to make sure your day is going well (see #1 on this list). What your husband does when he has nothing else to do is very telling. It shows where his priorities are at. If he spends that down time with you, even if it just means binge-watching romance movies, he’s sticking around.

Where The Guys? See The 5 Types Of Women You Should Never Marry [A Must Read]

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If you are just about to get married, then you need to settle down and go through this so as not to make any mistake choosing the right woman.

Like the Saying:- “It’s better to have a broken Relationship than a Broke Marriage!“, You have to be very sure she is the right person for you.

Here are Five Types of Women You Shouldn’t Marry

1. Spoiled

While fathers love to spoil their daughters, little girls should not grow up to be spoiled women. There is nothing wrong with liking good things and wanting a man to provide for his family. However, when a woman feels entitled to things without making an equal contribution, she is not cut out for a successful marriage.

To spoil is to change the character of something because of “excessive indulgence.” If a woman’s character has been compromised because of wealth or material things, stay away from her.

2. Lazy

Laziness is often a byproduct of being spoiled, but some people are lazy without being spoiled. A solid work-ethic is important for a happy marriage. If both spouses aren’t willing to work, marriage will be very difficult. Work-ethic isn’t about drawing a paycheck, it’s about consistently making the effort required for a successful life.

Whether at a job, around the house, or in the relationship, laziness will kill a marriage. If a person is lazy while dating, they will likely be just as lazy, if not more so, when married.

3. Unstable

Emotional stability is often overlooked as a key characteristic of a good spouse, yet it’s importance should be obvious. When someone is emotionally stable, they are reasonably predictable. In nearly every case, we know how they will respond. However, when someone is emotionally unstable, we never know what we are going to get.

They might laugh at a situation one time and fly off the handle the next time. They might receive a comment as a compliment on one day but then be deeply hurt by the same words the next day. The unpredictable responses can paralyze a spouse. When looking for a spouse, find someone who is emotionally stable.

4. Unfaithful

While adultery is devastating no matter the relationship, when women are unfaithful it is even less likely a relationship will endure. Maybe it’s because men are less forgiving. More likely it is because when women have an affair the relationship is already in deeper trouble. But no matter the situation, any hint of unfaithfulness while dating should cause a man to run.

5. Addicted

No matter how great a woman may be, if she is addicted to drugs, alcohol, gambling or any other destructive behavior, it will likely destroy the relationship. The problem with addiction is the active addict is more in love with their substance than their spouse. While a recovering addict can make a great spouse, an active addict cannot.

If you love someone who is in an addiction, tell them to fix the addiction and then give you a call. But do not marry someone in the midst of the struggle.

If your potential spouse is free from these five qualities, it will go a long way in creating a healthy relationship.

May God help us all, We won’t marry the wrong woman.. AMEN!!

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MUST READ: See How To Win A Girl’s Heart In 7 Days

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Do you have a girl giving you Tough time just to be yours? Even if she is proving STUBBORN or NOT? here are 10 tips to surely win her heart and make her your property!

1. Give Her Follow-Ups

Try to give her follow-ups wherever you spot her, but DON’T act with pressure. In other words, don’t be too curious. Always give her chances to talk. Best way to start your first conversation: “Hello, I wish to introduce myself…”

2. Be an Admiring Type

Tell her words that make her feel important, because she’s important to you, you need to let her know she is having some values that others do not value.

Tell her funny things and add this: “I love it when you smile” immediately after she does that. Girls love it when you praise them.

3. Show Her You Are a Gentle Man

Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but they do want to be treated like a princess. She doesn’t want you to be a doormat, she wants you to be in control. Open every door for her, especially the car door. Pull out her chair and allow her to sit down first when you take her on a date also let her order first. When you are walking alongside the street, you should be the one walking closest to the street.

4. Try to be selfless

You don’t have to break your bank account to impress her. Think outside the box. Give her what recalls your memory. A lady will appreciated a piece of Reekado Banks’s track you send to her phone rather than buying her a bunch of ice cream from Shoprite.

5. Mean the Business

Girls don’t agree you love them unless you mean the business. I call Bukunmi every day when I finally got her number. I send her encouraging text messages and inspirational Bible verses. I told her I wanted to be her man on the fifth day. She wasn’t ready, but she knew what I wanted. I gave her the time she needed with no stipulations, while still pursuing her intentionally. She told me she loved that.

6. Speak good of her in front of other people

Like I mentioned earlier, girls love it when you praise them, especially when they hear it from other people that a closer to you. Treat her just as kindly in front of friends and family as you do when you are alone.

7. Be attentive

Show her that you care for her. Pay attention to the small details. Girls care about the small stuff, big time. For instance, if you know your she is a vegetarian, take her to a vegetarian restaurant and listen to what she has to say.

8. Be protective

Don’t let her walk alone. If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her. If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door.

9. Be a good observer

Ask “what”, “how” and “why” questions. They help you understand a lady better. If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.

10. Be Realistic

Ok; Finally, be yourself. She would be so disappointed fallen for a false persona, and why would you want that anyway? So play real games with her, you are encouraging a to be real also.

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10 Types of Men Women Should Never Tolerate

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here are the kind of guys you definitely should not put up with when it comes to relationships:

1. The noncommittal type

Not being able to commit to just you is a bad sign. It could mean a couple of things, all of which aren’t what you want. Another option is that he’s using you. He enjoys the attention and physical closeness, but that’s all he’s interested in. If this is the case, it’s probably time for a serious talk.

2. The angry type

You know, the guys that absolutely flip out over the most insignificant things. Constantly yelling at you is not appropriate. If he doesn’t handle conflict appropriately, it’s probably a good idea to steer clear until he shapes up.

3. The put-downers

You’re always the b*tt of a joke or the object of his disapproval. Don’t put up with a man that is always putting you down. He may not even notice or it may just be his “sense of humor.” Even if that’s true – especially if that’s true – he needs to change. Don’t put up with mistreatment.

4. The non-cummunicative type

Communication is absolutely, positively, irrevocably essential in a relationship. I cannot stress this point enough. If he is unwilling to communicate with you, it’s time for a talk. He should be capable and willing to talk to you about his feelings (even though men generally hate it). He should talk to you about concerns, successes and all that personal stuff.

5. The abusive type

This is a no-brainer. Abuse is completely unacceptable. Yes, there is always a place for forgiveness and progress – but that’s a situation you’re going to have to figure out with your significant other and someone more qualified than me. Be careful not to lie to yourself about the severity of the situation.

6. The unsatisfiable type

These are the guys that are constantly comparing you to other women. It seems like no matter how hard you try or how amazing you truly are, you’re never quite enough for him. He’s never satisfied with you. He destroys your self esteem. You feel horrible around him. The truth is, you’re amazing. He’s just a jerk.

7. The materialistic type

If he’s more in love with himself than he is with you, he might fit in this category. The consequences of materialism and narcissism become evident with time – and they’re not pretty. This is basically the adult version of that popular kid in high school that never ended up doing anything with his life. Make sure his priorities are straight before taking your relationship to the next level.

8. The manipulative type (the control freak)

Don’t play that game. If you notice him trying to manipulate your feelings, call him out on it. Guilt trips are inappropriate. Manipulators too often turn into control freaks, so unless you’d like to sacrifice your free will and your identity for this guy, avoid the manipulators.

9. The stalker type

This is the guy that is absolutely and overwhelmingly obsessed with you. He has to keep tabs on you all day, every day. He’s always with you, but even when he’s not, he still knows exactly what you’ve been up to. If he would tone things back to an attachment level five that would be cute, but he’s over 9,000 right now. Your man needs to respect that you’ve still got your own life to live, and he needs to chill out.

10. The jealous type

The stalker type and the jealous type usually come as a package deal. You can’t so much as look in the same direction as another guy without him freaking out. He forces you to completely cut off contact with your male friends, even though you know they pose no threat. Avoid that guy.

 

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Ladies, Be Careful! These Are 10 Warning Signs That You Are Dating An Immature Man…Run Away!

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Relationships can be really exhilarating but they can also be destroyed by immaturity. These are signs that your partner is immature.

Most guys have a childish side to their personality and like to be the big kid sometimes, but some men take it to the extreme. At first, you might find his immaturity quite endearing, but that childishness can wear a bit thin after a while. Don’t get c@ught out dating a guy who can’t seem to take life seriously at all and look for these signs that you are dating an immature man.

1. Immature man hates being depended on

One of the most obvious signs of an immature man is that he absolutely dislikes being depended on. When things go wrong, the immature man won’t be there helping you out. The men-boys of the world will do anything to avoid being the one that people depend on. He’d rather ignore problems and hope that they go away.

2. He can’t hold a serious conversation

Another sign that your man has yet to grow up is his inability to hold an intelligent and meaningful conversation. Communication will not be on his list of skills, he would rather make a joke of things and move on to a lighter topic quickly.

3. He’s never had a proper girlfriend before

Next one of obvious signs of an immature man is that he probably never stayed in a meaningful relationship before in his life. That doesn’t bode well for you, because this lad has a lot of learning to do and you are going to have to be the teacher. Starting a career in teaching is probably not exactly what you had in mind when you met him. So you might want to think twice about staying with this type of guy.

4. Immature man has no idea what he wants for the future

If your man is immature then it is quite likely that he doesn’t plan much beyond tomorrow, let alone for the next ten years. Living day by sound like a great idea, but a mature man will, at least, have some idea of what kind of future he wants for himself.

5. You’re only his girlfriend when that fits on with his plans

If your man only goes out with you, when it suits him and is willing to cancel, at the drop of a hat, to go out with his buddies instead, then this is a definite sign that he needs to do some growing up. A real man will show some commitment and be willing to make you his priority.

6. Immature man can never make up his mind

Another one of clear signs of an immature man is that, alongside his lack of commitment will be a lack of ability to be decisive too. You’ll probably find that it’s you who are making all the decisions for him and making all the running in the relationship. Just like a kid, he will be perfectly happy for someone else to take all the tough decisions.

7. He probably can’t hold down a job either

An immature guy will probably find it hard to take a job seriously, and so he flits from one job to another, if he even has a job at all. He finds work dull and boring, and all that getting up early and being serous is too much of a drag for him to be putting up with.

8. Nothing is ever his fault

Next one of obvious signs of an immature man is that, just like a petulant child, he will never take the blame for anything, he will never accept responsibility for his actions and he will certainly never say that he is sorry. He will always have an excuse, or blame someone else, just like a naughty little boy would.

9. Immature man can be really spiteful

Another trait of an immature mind is the ability to be spiteful and cruel. He probably doesn’t really mean to be really hurtful, but he’s not mature enough to realise when he does. If a man really loves you, he wouldn’t want to hurt you; an immature man doesn’t take life seriously enough to even worry about things like that.

10. He eats nothing but pizza and beer

You can always tell an immature man by his shopping list. Mr Man-child is likely to have nothing more than frozen pizza and beer on his, and his idea of sophistication will be drinking his beer from a glass. Fine dining certainly won’t be on the agenda, when you date a man who has yet to grow up.

10 Tips On How To Win A Girl’S Heart In 7 Days

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There is a normal saying: …behind every successful man; there is always “good” woman.. Good in quotes. It is good to have a good partner because it makes life good for you. Sometimes it makes you think… “it’s the major reason you came to this earth”.
However, you might have spotted a girl which you think perfect to spend the rest of your life with, either she proves STUBBORN or NOT, here are 10 tips to surely win her heart and make her your property!

1. Give Her Follow-Ups
Try to give her follow-ups wherever you spot her, but DON’T act with pressure. In other words, don’t be too curious. Always give her chances to talk. Best way to start your first conversation: “Hello, I wish to introduce myself…”

3. Be an Admiring Type
Tell her words that make her feel important, because she’s important to you, you need to let her know she is having some values that others do not value.
Tell her funny things and add this: “I love it when you smile” immediately after she does that. Girls love it when you praise them.

2. Show Her You Are a Gentle Man
Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but they do want to be treated like a princess. She doesn’t want you to be a doormat, she wants you to be in control. Open every door for her, especially the car door. Pull out her chair and allow her to sit down first when you take her on a date also let her order first. When you are walking alongside the street, you should be the one walking closest to the street. Try to be selfless.

4. Be creative
You don’t have to break your bank account to impress her. Think outside the box. Give her what recalls your memory. A lady will appreciated a piece of Reekado Banks’s track you send to her phone rather than buying her a bunch of ice cream from Shoprite.

5. Mean the Business
Girls don’t agree you love them unless you mean the business. I call Bukunmi every day when I finally got her number. I send her encouraging text messages and inspirational Bible verses. I told her I wanted to be her man on the fifth day. She wasn’t ready, but she knew what I wanted. I gave her the time she needed with no stipulations, while still pursuing her intentionally. She told me she loved that.

6. Speak good of her in front of other people
Like I mentioned earlier, girls love it when you praise them, especially when they hear it from other people that a closer to you. Treat her just as kindly in front of friends and family as you do when you are alone.

7. Be attentive
Show her that you care for her. Pay attention to the small details. Girls care about the small stuff, big time. For instance, if you know your she is a vegetarian, take her to a vegetarian restaurant and listen to what she has to say.

8. Be protective
Don’t let her walk alone. If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her. If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door.

9. Be a good observer
Ask “what”, “how” and “why” questions. They help you understand a lady better. If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.

10. Be Realistic
Ok; Finally, be yourself. She would be so disappointed fallen for a false persona, and why would you want that anyway? So play real games with her, you are encouraging a to be real also.

Where Do You Belong? See The 5 Weird Ways Nigerian Guys Use In Toasting Women

All Thanks to Social Media, Some People for no Marry because they can’t face a lady and tell her how much they love her.

Most Nigerian guys have a lot of growing up to do when it comes to psyching/toasting ladies. They have not given up on the weird ways in which they ask ladies out or call out to women.

A Lady might like you but trust the babes, they can code a lot but believe me, they want you around them. Its now left to the guy to toast maturely. Even if the babe like you and your toasting approach is not cool, she might turn down your advances.

In this present age and time where there is technological advancement, you will expect some of these Nigerian guys to flow with the tides and be more confident when it comes to asking women out. You would even expect some of them to be brave and summon the courage to walk up to women.

Moving on to the ridiculous ways in which men approach women in Nigeria, you will laugh at some of the things they use as their pickup lines. Women on the other hand are tired of hearing the same old story and are more likely to turn down whoever approaches them with lame lines.

Find below some of the lame and ridiculous lines Nigerian guys use when they want to ask women out:-

1. The Whistlers

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Nigerian guys in this group are usually the touts and agberos you see around. They would rather hang around in groups and make noise when they see a pretty lady walk by. You will not even be sure of the one that has interest in the babe as they would keep making funny sounds with their mouths.

If you the lady looks in their direction, they would be inspired to throw lewd and bawdy remarks at her. If she ignores them, they would insult her and her generation.

2. The Swaggalicious Bouncers

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The Nigerian guys that fall within this group are so conscious of themselves. They believe in the have the confidence to walk up to any woman and ask her out. This confidence is not so far-fetched; having dressed in sagging jeans and some shirt with sneakers, they feel they are presentable enough for any girl to like and immediately fall for.

They however mess up the situation with the attitude they put up with it, they bounce and are so conscious of themselves to the point that they do not pay attention to what the ladies are saying.

3. Those Who Call You Baby The First Time

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Some Nigerian guys do not know that women get turned off when they walk up to them for the first time and start to use words that are endearing on them. It makes them look cheap as the women keep wondering if they use these words for every woman they meet.

Those who call women ‘baby’ are usually business men who have goods on the high sea; they are boisterous and entice women with their assets.

4. The Weaklings

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The Nigerian guys you will find in this category are those who feel intimidated by women and their successes. They would stick around as friends until they gather enough momentum to tell the women about their feelings. They are usually afraid of being turned down and would tag along until they feel the women are starting to acknowledge them.

5. The Smooth Guys

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Trust me when I say the Nigerian guys in this category are good; they are so smooth they would have you trip with the silliest remark they say. Whether they make sense or not, most girls would drop their guards when men like these approach them.

Be Sincere! Where do you belong to on the Category above?

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