MUST READ: 7 Reasons Why You Must Get Married

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It’s okay to decide what is best for you as long as you communicate your opinions to your partner.

We often hear some single people say they don’t want to get married though they are in relationships. They all have several strong reasons and their opinions are totally theirs.

It’s okay to decide what is best for you as long as you communicate your opinions to your partner who may or may not share your point of view.

Regardless of your reasons, inspired by Your Tango, here are 7 reasons to get married:-

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1. A deep sense of trust and faith is developed in this long term committed relatioship called marriage.

2. Exclusive companionship between you and your partner.

3. Couples marry so they don’t end up alone especially without the one they love.

4. There’s absolutely no risk of STDs when you are committed to one partner.

5. Couples get to save money by sharing expenses.

6. A healthy marriage provides stability for children.

7. Couples can learn more about themselves in a committed relationship and experience personal growth.

9 Advantages Of Dating A Tall Girl – A Must See For All Guys

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I just saw a thread with mostly short girls trying to give themselves hope! Well it’s allowed, but take heart, tall girls rule anytime any day, anywhere.

We know how y’all feel so i’m just gonna be soft here cheesy guys don’t get deceived here are some advantages of dating tall girls

1. Tall ladies exude confidence: have you ever been to a dinner or evening party,wedding or occasions and a tall elegant lady walks in? It’s like magic. All attention is fixed on her, especially the type who cat walks like me! Men we no send anybody. You see ushers rushing to look for a comfortable position for us to sit,now that’s priceless unlike the short babes who hardly get noticed even with the 11inches heels.

2. Every dress fits them: from gowns, to jumpsuits to jeans to leggings, every single thing fits. Imagine a tall lady with Sharon stones kinda hot legs on mini skirt? Guys you would release mere thinking of what’s under her skirts.

3. Tall ladies never feel inferior: you see them always ready to talk in functions, events and what have you! They have nothing to loose. They possess that self confidence anywhere.

4. You don’t need to bend to kiss us: we are bad like that. Luckily if u tall as well we make a perfect couple, if u short we bend to kiss u, you cant put your hands around our shoulders to intimidate us, it’s actually very romantic when we put our hands around your shoulder and plant a peck on your cheeks! Short girls ndo, u girls can never do that.

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5. We are good on bed: forget the portability of short ladies, tall girls with long legs are ready to hang that leg anywhere! Our legs can comfortably go round your waist. Angle 69 is awesome and easy and above all tall girls have really deep cunts,they can take any size of d**k very well without feeling any pain duuuh to dem short girls.

6. We give our men self confidence: you don’t need to start looking for us in the crowd when we go out, we don’t need heels. Have u ever seen a short guy walking with his tall babe? The look on his face is priceless. You see that self confidence he has, the look of “even though i’m short my babe is proud of me” and for a tall guy you need to see the way they both oppress the crowd, damn my head is swelling.

7. You don’t need a stool in your house: we can reach anything without help, we are that good. We fix bulbs, clean the shelf, we don’t need to call u 247 to help us out with things around the house, we are that gifted.

8. We compliment your genes: it’s hard to see a tall woman give birth to a dwarf kid. Even if her hubby is short, her kids come out average. So if u a short guy and u dating a short babe, have a rethink! You sure don’t want a pygmy for a kid.

9. Tall girls are hardly hot tempered: what’s there to be angry about? I mean we have it all, guys always wanna associate with us so why have high BP on trivial issues? We laugh a lot and allow things slide.

If u ain’t dating a tall lady, you need to step up your game cheesy

17 Facts You Should Know If You Are Dating A Short Girl

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I am presently dating a shorter lady and have found out these little facts about her and her type for these past 14months we’ve been together.

Here are 17 tips for you to enjoy your relationship if you are or about to get into a relationship with a shorter lady.

1. Everything she does is cute and adorable, but do not tell her she’s cute or adorable. She wants to be a s3-xy goddess, not “cute.” This means she wants you to make her feel like she’s Gisele even though she’s tiny.

2. Also “TINY” is not a cute pet name. Call her babe, baby, bae — whatever. But do not call her tiny, shorty or small for that matter (unless you’ve cleared it with her and she’s down with that nickname).

3. Please don’t ask to pick or carry her up. She isn’t a puppy or a baby. She wants to know you respect her. If she wants you to pick her up, she’ll most likely run and jump on you like she’s re enacting a scene from Hollywood movie The Notebook.

4. Though She doesn’t discriminate against shorter guys, but she has her eye on tall men maybe that was why she prefered you to that short dude. Why? She wants to give her kids a shot at being tall one day, and in her dreams, her 5-foot-2 self + your 6-foot-3 self = a 5-foot-9 daughter/son.

5. One important point I’ve come to realize is that What she lacks in height, she makes up for in personality. There’s a good chance your petite new love interest is a “firecracker,” as some say, which will make you love her even more.

6. You’ll most likely have to bend down or at least strain your neck every time you want to kiss her. But it will be so worth the crick in your neck that you’ll probably get once in a while… And remember she will also have to leap ova to kiss you too.

7. Never for any reason underestimate her. She might be small in size but I can bet she’s probably tougher than you… ask me?

8. Don’t rest your arm on top of her head. It makes her feel like her neck is going to break (note: It was made to support the weight of her pretty little head only, possibly along with a motorcycle helmet) If you’re that kind of guy, your arm on her head makes her look like your kid sister, not your lover.

9. She likes being little. Don’t make it sound like a bad thing. After all, she can wear the highest heels without looking ridiculous, which she knows makes her tall friends jealous.

10. If you keep things where she can’t reach them, she will always make you get them for her everytime. So please don’t put her poo on a high shelf… except.

11. She will always be in high heels, so don’t expect to be able to walk to dinner. And if you do want a romantic night of walking around town, let her know in advance so girlfriend can at least wear a wedge.

12. She is really good at crawling into small places, like the window of your apartment that you’re locked out of. So, on the off chance that you left your window open, she’s got this and you’ll be chilling on your couch in no time.

13. Hold her hand. Always. It’s actually pretty scary to be lost in a crowd of people taller than you, so hang on tight and don’t let go of her.

14. Any time she wants to tell you something in your ear, be prepared to bend down to her level. Unless of course you’re sitting down. Then it’s much easier to communicate.

15. Unlike the tall girl you last dated, you can put her in almost any position you want when you’re fooling around. Think Cirque de Soleil-like positions like these. Yes, this could be your best reality.

16. When you meet her IRL, she doesn’t need to be reminded that she’s tiny. She knows how petite she is, but just because you might be seeing her/learning this information for the first time doesn’t mean you need to voice it.

So, when you do finally meet her on your first date, do NOT tell her that she looks so much taller in her Instagram photos. Because that, my friend, is a backhanded compliment.

17. She makes one hell of a little spoon, very stubborn. But She’ll be the yin to your yang and all will be right in your world.​

10 Attributes That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife

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It perplexes me when a lady often nags and finds fault in everything just because her boyfriend is going through difficult time but the moment he climbs the ladder of success and achieves greatness, she will start being tolerant and nice even though she has been a nagging girlfriend.

When this character is noticed in a lady, it should ring a bell to guys that careful tactful need to be employ when dealing with such lady.

Below are the evidences that shows a lady will become very stingy when you marry her.

1. She presents inferior gifts to her boyfriend

For a lady who present inferior gifts such as N100 recharge card, mallam perfume, slippers, china boxers and singlets as birthday gift for her boyfriend shows that she will become a stingy and disastrous wife. It’s a shameful thing to see how some ladies treat their boyfriends like a worthless dog hereby presenting an inferior gift to a guy who went extra mile to please them during their birthday celebration.

2. She’s Very Demanding Yet She Tells You No s*x Till Marriage

Before you bite me, please note a lady who is very demanding, she’s not a v*rgin yet she’s bent on no s*x till marriage, always have something up her sleeves and I will advise you grab race sharp sharp. I won’t even recommend such ladies for my enemies. When you marry such a lady, she will always use s*x to starve or torment each time you offend her.

3. She always claim to be broke

A lady who always claims to be broke at all time when her account is actually fat indicates that the probability is high for her to become a home wrecker. Such ladies are only interested in what a guy can offer financially but immediately things turn sour, you won’t see their brake light again.

4. I can’t spend on guys

It’s a huge blow on ladies whose brains are wired to the belief that financial responsibilities and pressure should only be mounted on guys while the ladies go about flexing. As a result of this, many of them see marriage as a route to escape from poverty. Some of them will even say that they can never call a guy who sends them recharge card (what a wack mentality). These kind of ladies can’t help build a home.

5. She can’t Lend her Boyfriend Money

It’s very shameful that many useless ladies always claim that they can’t respect their boyfriends if they borrow him money. This is nothing but bullshit. The last time I check, relationship is give and take and it should emanate from both side. Never even consider walking down the aisle with such a lady.

6. She hates the idea of doing dutch on dates

I have seen cases where some stingy ladies grumble and murmur like children of Israel saying that their boyfriends do not love them just because their boyfriends demanded that the bill be splitted and paid by each party when on date. These categories of ladies will end up causing problems in the family as they are stubborn headed to pool resources together.

7. She’s desperate to know her boyfriend’s monthly income

I don’t really blame guys who are bent on not disclosing their monthly income to their girlfriend, this is because many ladies are only curious to know so that they will know how to bring up cooked up stories to scam him. Survey has it that any lady who is desperate to know her boyfriend’s monthly income is nothing but a selfish lady. Desist from such a lady.

8. She wants everything for free

They always advocate no s*x before marriage yet they want everything for free while they are not ready to pay a sacrifice. However, ladies who want everything on a platter of gold need to understand that a guy will never cherish you if you are always at the receiving end. Guys like it when they beg a lady to accept their money or gifts. Ladies of this nature will become stingy wives.

9. She’s Too Obsessed With Suya

I don’t think I can ever marry a lady who likes suya and asun so much. If care is not taken, the larger proportion of my salary will go with it.. Guys, na to grab race for such ladies oooo,

10. She Only Flashes And Sends “Please call me

Research has it that ladies who are very economical with their call credit are very risky to marry. However, some of them will have 2,000 on their phones and will still be sending “please call me” to their boyfriends who only have N10 on their phones. Marry such ladies at your peril

Reasons Women Prefer To Make Love At Night

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It has been said that while men prefer morning $ex, (they are naturally even ready for it if you know what I mean) women will rather get it on at night.

The reasons for this might be peculiar for each woman, but there are some basic reasons that will cut across most women.

Here are 5 reasons why she might prefer to have $ex with you at night.

1. Darkness:  A woman who is insecure about her body might prefer $ex in the dark and only night-time offers that. She feels freer because she does not have to worry about how she looks and this might lead to a more satisfying $exual experience.

2. Relaxing: After a very busy day, most men just want to hit the sack, but not women. Some women might prefer to have a glass of wine, surf the net or watch some TV to unwind before bed, while some will prefer to have some fun with their men. The point is, women prefer to gradually unwind before actually going to bed, and $ex can help with this.

3. Better sleep: Experts have told us that $ex makes us sleep better. For a woman who has to be up early to deal with sleep, chores, etc, it makes sense that she will have to get the best sleep she can. So, don’t be surprised when she rubs up on you for that natural ‘valium.’

4. Mood: Something about the night makes a woman a bit freer. It is not necessarily the darkness, it is the ambience, quiet, and the overall cover that the night offers. This is why intimate dates, quiet walks, heart-to-heart talks, etc always seem so much more romantic at nights. It is this feeling that makes her want to connect with you at the end the day instead of during the harsh light of day.

5. Preparedness: Compared to morning $ex, women can actually prepare for night $ex. It is not as spontaneous as just getting up in the morning and doing it. She can take a shower, spray a little perfume, and wear lingerie in preparation for some good loving.

Women feel more $exual confidence when they are prepared, as opposed to the morning when they might be worried about morning breath among other things.

Advice A Cliqloadite:- “Am So Confused, What Should I Do?”

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A Cliqloadite sent this to Us, He needs your Advice on his Relationship…

Here is what he sent to us (Unedited):-

Hello Cliqloaded,

Have been dating this girl for five years now, and we both love each other. People do call us Romeo and Juliet because of the way we show our love openly. I love her so much that when we have misunderstanding I find it difficult to breath because I feel she’s my life. She’s very supportive both financially and mentally, and I love her for that.

I told myself that I’ll date no other girl apart from her and when am ready for marriage, I’ll propose to her. But few days back I called and sat her down, I asked her to swear she’ll tell me the truth which she did. I asked her if she has another boyfriend elsewhere and she said “YES” that they have been dating for two years now. I felt like I was going mad, when I asked her she said a friend of hers introduce the guy to her and she fell for him.

The problem now is that she claim she still loves me despite she has a second guy, she said I shouldn’t let our relationship end because of a guy who is in ogun state while we are in lagos. I told her I can’t continue because if she loved me she wouldn’t have taken a second boyfriend.

She’s still insisting she loves me and I don’t think I can cope with the heartbreak. Please advice me on what to do.

Over to the Love Doctors on Cliqloaded – Advice this Young Man.

Drop your Comments.

My Own Comment:- Why would you ask a lady such question? Learn to avoid some Irrevelant questions if you want you Relationship to Last and work out fine. Don’t even ask about his Ex and how they thing are when they are dating.. The response will always break you down at that moment and in the Future.. Believe me, The relationship won’t work out. LEARN LIFE!!!

Unbelievable! How A Nigerian Student Strangled His Lover To Death For Ignoring Him On Valentine’s Day

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A man has meted out the most heinous form of punishment to his lover on Valentine’s Day for allegedly turning down his request.

A student of Psychology Department of University of Jos, Miss Zakariah Nanchin, has been reportedly killed by a man believed to be her lover, for purportedly turning down his Valentine Day’s outing invitation.

Nanchin was allegedly strangled to death by her lover, one Badung David Dele on Monday, the day after Valentine at her Angwa Rukuba apartment in Jos.

According to The Nation, Dele was said to have reached out to Nanchin apparently to settle their differences and invited her out for Valentine. The deceased reportedly declined the invitation.

A source, close to the duo, said they have been in an intimate relationship for quite some time until a misunderstanding set in shortly before the last Valentine day. However, Nanchin allegedly felt that there was no basis for any dating between them having parted for some time.

Dele was said to have stormed Nanchin’s apartment the following morning and demanded an explanation why she failed to make the outing. He reportedly grabbed her by the neck and strangled her to death after which he left the apartment and reportedly told a neighbour he met outside that he wanted to go and get some medicine for his ‘ill’ friend.

He was said to have given his phone number to the neighbour, a woman, and asked her to call him in case of any emergency.

Reports say the woman perceived something fishy had transpired, so she proceeded to Nanchin’s room only to find her lying down on her bed unconscious.

The woman, simply identified as Mama Joy, said “I called her name but she did not respond so I moved closer and I discovered that she was dead.

“I ran out, screaming to alert the people around. I was shocked that the boy managed to kill this girl without a gun. There was no blood on her body,” Mama Joy added.

Confirming the incident, the state Police Public Relations Officer, PPRO, DSP Abu Emmanuel, said Badung was arrested on the same day.

“After some interrogation, he confessed to have committed the crime. We are making necessary arrangements to arraign him in court soon.”

Emmanuel called out to ladies, cautioning them to be careful who they date.

“Some of these boys are criminals and you might ignorantly fall into their hands like this girl,” the PPRO said, adding that the body of the deceased had been transferred from Bingham University Teaching Hospital to the Jos University Teaching Hospital JUTH for autopsy and relevant action.

Where Are The Ladies? Here Are The 8 Ways To Discard Stubborn Toasters

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I just don’t know why some guys can’t take “NO” for an answer as they find it difficult to understand that ladies find it somewhat irritating when they are persistently pressurised to accept their proposal.

By the reason of their desperation, they become aggressive he-goats, thereby, chasing ladies without an iota of shame or self respect.

For a lady who has been experiencing this terrible menace of chicken-like chase from guys, the following points will help you in discarding stubborn toasters from your life.

1. Demand huge Money from them

Guys get easily discouraged when a lady starts demanding for money unnecessarily, and so as a lady, it will be advisable to gold-dig an adamant toaster with the intuition to keep him off your zone so as to forcefully make him have disinterest in you. However, demand money for Brazilian hair or school fee and watch him drift way

2. Reply his chats with monosyllabic words

Ladies are really gifted in this act, so there’s no point laying much emphasis about the way they do it. Most guys cannot cope with monosyllabic responses during chat, therefore, they lose interest and may even delete the lady when they can no longer cope. This method is best adopted to discard guys who are online woman wrappers.

3. Declare “Unhealthy” status to them

Ladies, this will work like magic to discard kitty-cat obsessed toasters from your life (E.g Tosyne2much, classcaptain and Ronald4lif). Invite such a guy to your house and when it is getting to the point of love making, kindly tell him that you are an HIV/Ebola patient. In a twinkle of an eye, you will see him run for his dare life.

4. Scare them with “Blood Covenant”

There are several occasion when action speaks louder than voice. If a lady can be smart enough to tie a fake charm around her waist or say any guy that get laid with her will experience thunderbolt, he won’t dare near her again. Better still, you could tell the dude to go into blood covenant with you, and watch him zoom off with the speed of light

5. Wear an Engagement Ring

Even though some guys will not want to keep off despite wearing an engagement ring on your finger; keep ringing it to their ears to attend your wedding ceremony which will be coming up soon. This will make him feel so bad that he will have no choice other than back off completely. Though this may not work on some extremely stubborn toasters sha.

6. Often Upload the picture of a very Handsome guy as your boyfriend

For some reasons, it will be advisable that ladies facing headache from ugly toasters should use pictures of a very handsome dude as their display pictures, even though they are not dating him. This will however, oppress these toasters as they know they are ugly.

7. Tell them you can’t date a Broke guy

Many guys, if not all, detest hearing this discriminatory statement from ladies. No matter how stubborn a toaster is, he will let you be the moment you make him realize you can’t date a broke guy like him.

8. Tell them to embark on several weeks dry fasting

For a guy who refuse to back off, a lady should tell him to embark on several weeks dry fasting to hear from God if she is the one. The statement alone will make him nag like is she the only lady on earth. As a result of this, he will drastically lose interest.

How To Make A Girl Like You Without Asking Her Out

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You like a girl. And you want her to like you back. All you need to do is follow ten little steps. Find out how to make a girl like you without even asking her out.

When a regular guy likes a girl, he wears his heart on his sleeves and asks her out.

But he really doesn’t know if she’s going to accept his proposal or walk all over him.

Being straight forward is a nice way to ask a girl out, but it’s not perfect.

If you want to know how to make a girl like you, you need to know how to do just that without really ever telling her that you like her in the first place.

By asking a girl out, you’re putting her in a spot, probably because she’s never looked at you as a dating potential or because she likes someone else.

But by warming her up and making her want you first, you’d be able to make her like you without ever telling her that you want to go out with her.

How to make a girl like you

When a girl feels comfortable around you, you’re a nice guy.

When she has a great time with you, you’re definitely a great guy.

If she has a great time with you and feels a flutter in her heart when she’s around you, well, you’re definitely on the right track to making her like you.

Most guys try to be nice guys, and there’s really nothing wrong in that. If you want to get a girl to like you, you definitely have to play nice. But as the friendship progresses, you have to learn to subtly move away from the friend zone and let her notice you as a dating potential.

Many guys get this part wrong. They want to go out with a girl, but they never really make any move towards letting the girl know what’s on their mind. And eventually, all that happens is that she gets swept away by some other guy, while they whine about how unfair life is to them. Don’t be that loser of a guy.

Attractive friends and dating potentials

If you have an attractive friend, never let her see you as just a friend, unless you have no intentions of ever dating her or making out with her. But can any guy ever not fall for an attractive cutie, friend or otherwise? I think not.

Girls may find it easier to stay friends with an attractive guy, but guys just can’t. It’s in a man’s competitive nature to woo anyone he finds attractive. But there are exceptions here, like when the girl is already dating another guy, or if she’s so way out of your league that you can’t even think of asking her out.

If you really do like a girl and want to make her like you, you can always overcome the exceptions if you want to. If she’s dating another guy, learn how to steal a girlfriend. And if you think she’s way out of your league, let me tell you something, no girl is ever way out of league for any guy. If you believe in yourself and truly realize that you’re worthy of her, you’ll find a way to leave a lasting impression on her.

Don’t smooth talk all girls you meet

If you want to know how to make a girl like you, you need to stop trying to be a serial flirter. Do you have a friend who flirts with every single girl he meets, even if there are two or more girls at the same time?

Now his flirting abilities may be a gift to die for, but when you publicly flirt with every single friend or girl you meet, you’re not treating one girl any different from the other. All the girls may end up assuming you’re just a serial flirter who just flirts with all his friends.

Making a girl like you the sneaky way

If you want to make a girl like you, she has to believe that you’re treating her differently. By treating her in a special manner, you’ll make her wonder if you’ve got something more than friends on your mind. Really, why else would you treat one friend differently from the others?

And once you get her thinking, you’ve already set the ball in motion. Both of you may be friends, but the doubt of whether both of you are more than friends would create a tingle of $exual excitement and curiosity that can score you big points while pursuing her sneakily.

Don’t flirt and tell

A bit of casual flirting is fun, even among friends. You can flirt and tease all your girl friends, but don’t overdo it. Let all your women friends see you as a cheerful guy who’s a lot of fun to spend time with.

But save your wooing and flirting when you’re alone with a girl. Flirt with her using the sneaky flirting steps I’ve mentioned below and get touchy feely when it’s just the both of you. By keeping it discreet, you get to make an impression on the girl, and no one else even knows about it. The secret flirting can excite the girl you like, and you’re not really asking her out anyways, are you? You’re just indulging in a bit of “friendly flirting”.

If this girl speaks about your flirting with another girl friend, everyone knows you as a cheerful guy who flirts now and then, so no one’s going to believe she’s getting any special treatment from you, and this would only make her get drawn to you even if it’s just to confirm her doubts!

On the other hand, if she keeps the flirting a secret too, it’ll make her feel all the more excited to share a special connection with you.

Either ways, you win!

What’s the next move?

If you want to understand the real secret behind knowing how to make a girl like you, you always need to remember to keep your real intentions of wanting to go out with her a secret until you know she really likes you back.

Asking a girl out straight is easy, but once you do that, you have no control on her decision. And if you do like a girl and want to go out with her, why would you want to leave your hopes to chance?

As chauvinistic as I may sound, girls like a bit of drama and confusion in their life. Create a friend-or-more-than-a-friend drama and watch the pretty picture unfold while having the ball in your court the whole way. And if you play your cards right and take it slow, you’ll know how to make a girl like you back without even expressing your feelings to her!

Source:- Love Panky